A year with a purpose

The end of the year is such a great time, don’t you think?  It is a great opportunity to slow down and think what we have done, what would we like to do and dream big for the next year.

We continuously complain how fast time is going by so it is good to stop and make sure we don’t allow one more year to just get lost in the rush of our lives.  It is a time to revisit each moment, from the tough circumstances draw lessons and from happy ones save smiles and memories in our heart to never forget them, and maybe include as one of our New Year’s resolution to enjoy each day to the maximum.

It is also a time to look ahead toward the New Year and to make plans. Making New Year’s resolutions is so much fun! It may sound silly, but I love that feeling of a fresh start and new opportunities ahead. I know this can happen in any month of the year and in any day of the month, but for some reason resolutions are more exciting in January.

I have finally learned that to make any plan that is worthwhile, first I need to spend time with God to find guidance.  It makes no sense for us to make a lot of plans and work hard to achieve them, if God is not involved all the time and investment will be wasted, “Unless the Lord builds a house, the work of the builders is useless.” (Psalm 127:1)

When thinking about our New Year’s resolutions we may not know where to start but if we put God first, He will guide us and show us the way “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.  Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) and keep in mind that God is big, so most likely He will ask us to do big things, tough things that will give big fruit and will glorify Him in big ways. 

So as you get ready to write your goals for the new year; whatever you decide, make sure it helps you to live each day of the year with purpose; be good to yourself; ask God for His blessing and for those blessings to overflow so many will be blessed; make yourself available for His purpose and I can assure you there will not be a boring day in your life. Let’s live according to what we believe.

Breathe deeper, laugh often, live with passion making time for the important things.  Be happy and let your happiness be contagious; change one life, change many lives, once you make the decision you will be surprised how random acts of kindness will start becoming part of your daily life and blessings will be multiplied.

Above everything, let this year be all about God, about receiving His love, spending time with Him, reading His Word and allowing Him to fill you.  

As we close one year and greet the next one we need to remember that everything starts and ends with God, He is “the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.” (Revelations 22:13)  

Happy New Year!

A legacy of love

Have you ever thought about the legacy you are leaving?  Have you thought how your actions today will speak tomorrow? 

Building a legacy doesn’t happen in a day, it is the outcome of our daily living, so it is something we need to think about now.  

God has this amazing plan for each of us “For I know the plans I have for you, ‘says the Lord.’ They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11)  But what if for that plan to be completed we have to do something bigger than us, something we may not want to because it is too hard and painful.  What if God is asking us to behave in a way that makes no sense to society and to our view of fairness … What if God is asking us to love the way He loves us and that is the legacy He wants us to leave.

Should we love even those we feel don’t deserve it? “I am giving you a new commandment: love each other.  Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.” (John 13:34) This answers our doubt, so maybe the question is, how do we love someone whom we feel doesn’t deserve it.

We can look for hints in 1 Corinthians 13 but the words in this verse may leave us even more confused. “Love is patient and kind.  Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.  Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.  Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

Do you see what I mean?  How can we love this way?  It seems impossible!  But before we can digest this description of love, Paul finishes saying:  “It’s like this: When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does.  But when I grew up, I put away childish things.”  (1Corinthians 13:11) Maybe all the excuses I was about to write and all the reasons I was going to give for not being able to love the way God wants us to love were childish thoughts.  Maybe God is saying to us that it is time to grow up and begin a new level, one that requires for us to allow Him to love through us, no matter how hard it may seem.

But are we supposed to love, even if we have been wronged? Are we supposed to be patient and kind and always hopeful?  It doesn’t seem fair does it?  If we really think about it, was it fair when Jesus died for our sins? God loves us so much that “he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)  Did we deserve it?  How patient has God been with us?  How many times have we hurt Him by turning away from Him? And yet He never gives up on us and He is by our side in every circumstance. 

Jesus was, is and will always be love. We can argue that He can love that way because He is God, but when Jesus came to earth He became a man, with the same feelings and weaknesses we have, so He could have not loved all those around Him, but He chose to, because that was His mission on earth. “My nourishment comes from doing the will of God, who sent me, and from finishing his work” (John 4:34)

Everyone has been created in the image of God “God patterned them after himself; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27) when we love someone, no matter what they have done, we are loving God.  When we love the way God wants us to love, our actions speak of Him and we share His love.  It is all about God; He shines and He is glorified.  We leave a legacy that has eternal impact, a legacy of love.

A team effort

Do you sometimes think that you can or need to do it all alone, so you keep going until you crash?

Do you feel there is so much to do and so little time?  Then love yourself and share the work load!

I will be honest, as I write this; I smile to myself, because it is so much easier said than done, isn’t it?

I don’t know if this happens to everyone, but for me delegating is hard!  I know I should, I know I need to, I know it is the right thing to do, but…  

Sometimes we want to do so much, we have great intentions, we may even be working on the mission God has placed on our heart but we are doing it all alone and as we read the Bible it doesn’t take us long to realize that God is interested in us being a community, in depending on each other.

We read in 1 Corinthians 12:12; 18 “The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up only one body.  So it is with the body of Christ….  God made our bodies with many parts, and he has put each part just where he wants it.”  This applies to our life, we are supposed to depend on others; we are connected.

 “Who is Apollos, and who is Paul, that we should be the cause of such quarrels? Why, we’re only servants… Each of us did the work the Lord gave us. My job was to plant the seed in your hearts, and Apollos watered it, but it was God, not we, who made it grow.  The ones who do the planting or watering aren’t important, but God is important because he is the one who makes the seed grow.  The one who plants and the one who waters work as a team with the same purpose.  Then they will be rewarded individually, according to their own hard work.  We work together as partners who belong to God. ” (1 Corinthians 3:5-9)

I wonder why we don’t like to delegate or share our work?  Could a little bit of pride be hidden deep inside our motive? Could there be some fear that others will not be able to do things as well as us or maybe we are afraid they could do them better than us? Or simply we just don’t want to “bother” anyone, but then again that takes us back to pride, can we really be self-sufficient?

We all have talents and abilities which we should use, interact and maximize.  We can do more together than on our own.  Even Jesus shared the work load “Jesus called his twelve disciples to him and gave them authority to cast out evil spirits and to heal every kind of disease and illness.”  (Matthew 10:1)

In Exodus 18:14; 17 we read how Moses’ father in law, Jethro, gives him great advice as he sees people lining up for Moses to help them with their problems. “Why are you trying to do all this alone? The people have been standing here all day to get your help… you’re going to wear yourself out – and the people too. This job is too heavy a burden for you to handle all by yourself.”  And I love Moses’ response; he “listened to his father-in law’s advice and followed his suggestions.” (Exodus 18:24) 

But it goes so much further than just getting some help so Moses could do a better job and the people could get help faster, so much happens spiritually when we work as a team.  In another occasion when Moses asked God to send help, God told him to get together seventy of the leaders of Israel “Bring them to the Tabernacle to stand there with you.  I will come down and talk to you there.  I will take some of the Spirit that is upon you, and I will put the Spirit upon them also.  They will bear the burden of the people along with you, so you will not have to carry it alone.’”(Numbers 11:16-17) God answered Moses plead by preparing people around him and sharing His blessings, His Spirit! So many times when we refuse to share our work load we could be denying others of blessings that God has prepared for them.  

God has big plans for each of us and He is not expecting us to carry the weight on our own.   He has already placed in our path the people who will cover us in prayer, the people who will share the ups and downs of the journey, and the people who will cry and laugh and celebrate each victory with us. This is a team effort and God is our leader.

The threshing floor

Have you ever thought… if God loves me, then why do I have to go through difficulties?

God has made us wonderful promises “I will cause my people and their homes around my holy hill to be a blessing. And I will send showers, showers of blessings, which will come just when they are needed.” (Ezekiel 34:26)  “The Lord will send rain at the proper time from his rich treasury in the heavens to bless all the work you do”. (Deuteronomy 28:12) 

Have you noticed that many times when we read in the Bible about God’s blessings, due season and obedience are mentioned right beside them?  And most of the time that perfect timing comes as we pass through hard things.  

God doesn’t want us to take shortcuts when it comes to growing, learning and letting go of unnecessary loads.  He is serious about teaching us, purifying us and taking us step by step closer to Him.

The other day I attended a workshop organized by Out Of Darkness, a nonprofit organization that runs a 24/7 hotline to rescue women who are being trafficked.  One of the guest speakers talked about the “threshing floor season” in such a beautiful way that easily explained how God lovingly purifies us so we can be closer to Him. 

Threshing in the Bible times was done during harvest season, when it was time to remove the grain from the husk. The threshing floor was a circular flat area where mules or oxen pulling a special sled would pass over and over the sheaves. After this, the stalks and the grains were thrown into the air so the wind would blow the unwanted chaff and only the good kernels would remain at the threshing floor. 

This is a great way to describe the purifying process that we go through, which many times includes painful situations that help us get rid of the things we don’t need. 

The threshing floor is a place of crushing, sorting and at the same time of abundance and blessing.

“David replied, ‘I have come to buy your threshing floor and to build an altar to the Lord there, so that the Lord will stop the plague.’ ‘Take it my lord, and use it as you wish,’ Araunah said to David…But the king replied to Araunah, ‘No, I insist on buying it, for I cannot present burnt offerings to the Lord my God that have cost me nothing.’” (2 Samuel 24:21-24) Don’t you love that answer?  Many times we want the blessing but we are not so sure about the sacrifice.  We don’t want to wait, change our attitude, face the past or give up things that we should.  We just want things to be better quick; a miracle that happens instantaneously. 

The threshing floor bought by David became later the place where king Solomon built the Temple of the Lord in Jerusalem.  So the place of humbling sacrifice became the place where the glory of God shone.  

The closer we want to be to God the more we need to let Him mold us, because there is too much selfishness in us and too many distractions that need to be taken away, separated and blown in the wind.

The promises of God are real and they are for each of us, and the perfect time always comes, and as we wait God refines us so we can be closer to Him and He can use us to help others.  “In a wealthy home some utensils are made of gold and silver, and some are made of wood and clay.  The expensive utensils are used for special occasions, and the cheap ones are for everyday use.  If you keep yourself pure, you will be a utensil God can use for his purpose.” (2 Timothy 2:20-21)  

One matters to God

Have you ever felt overwhelmed when facing big issues such as poverty, environmental degradation or human trafficking to name a few? Have you thought that any action you take is so small and insignificant, so why even bother?

I am sure you have heard the story of the boy who was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach and kept throwing them back into the water.  A man saw him and asked him what he was doing and tried to make the boy realize that it wouldn’t matter because there were thousands of starfish on the beach in thousands of beaches around the world, but the boy refused to give up, picked up another one, threw it back into the ocean saying: “it mattered to that one”.

“As one person I cannot change the world, but I can change the world of one person” Paul Shane Spear

One matters to God, He is all about personal relationships; He cares about you!  About everything you do what you feel, what you fear, what you want to hide from the past and what you dream for the future. He knows you and wants to have a relationship with you because you matter to Him.  He wants to bless you because He loves you “I love all who love me.  Those who search for me will surely find me.  Unending riches, honor, wealth, and justice are mine to distribute.” (Proverbs 8:17) 

We read in the Bible how Jesus changed people’s lives; how He kept spreading God’s love one person at the time. He could have used a more “efficient” method, for example, once He arrived to a city, He could have gotten together all the people who were sick and He could have had massive healing gatherings, this way thousands of people would have been healed all at once!… but no, He chose one on one and those healings are still teaching us today. 

God loves us beyond understanding and He sees everything that happens to His children, to all His children! “You can be sure I have seen the misery of my people in Egypt.  I have heard their cries for deliverance from their harsh slave drivers.  Yes, I am aware of their suffering.  So I have come to rescue them from the Egyptians… Now go, for I am sending you.” (Exodus 3:7; 10)  It is so easy to say a quick prayer from our comfortable lives, and keep going, and that is fine sometimes, but other times God wants to send us, to literally take us places we would prefer not to go, because they are not pretty nor comfortable, but that is where some of His children are, waiting for someone to say to them… “You matter to God and to me”.

So we are clear that we, each of us, all of us are important to God. Now, let’s understand that God wants to use us to help one or many; all we have to do is give to Him what we have and see how He multiplies it beyond our comprehension.  Remember the story of Jesus feeding five thousand people? “Jesus soon saw a great crowd of people climbing the hill, looking for him.  Turning to Philip, he asked, ‘Philip, where can we buy bread to feed all these people?’ He was testing Philip, for he already knew what he was going to do.  Philip replied, ‘it would take a small fortune to feed them!’… ‘There’s a young boy here with five barley loaves and two fish.  But what good is that with this huge crowd?’ … Then Jesus took the loaves, gave thanks to God, and passed them out to the people.  Afterward he did the same with the fish.  And they all ate until they were full.”  (John 6:5-9; 11)  We just need to give God the little we have and wait for Him to do the rest.

We all are a family, and we need to take care of each other.  We need to spread God’s love one person at the time, giving God our talents and abilities and letting Him guide our steps to multiply the gifts He has given us for the good of His people.  “God does not show favoritism” (Romans 2:11) God loves all of us the same, so once we realize the depth of His love for us, we need to be Jesus’ hands and feet and show the people He puts in our heart His love for them.

The battle is not yours

Have you ever been in a situation that is too big, too impossible or too difficult for you to even know where to start?  If so, then you can understand how King Jehoshaphat felt when messengers told him that the armies of the Moabites, Ammonites, and some of the Meunites had declared war on him and were on their way.  He could have assembled his greatest war advisors to start making decisions right away, since the messengers told him that the enemy was close, but instead he refused to do anything until he heard from God.

We like to read the stories in the Bible, but sometimes we don’t see how they apply to our life, so let’s ask God to show us how we can learn from king Jehoshaphat’s response and put it into practice when we face attacks.

“Jehoshaphat was alarmed by this news and sought the Lord for guidance.  He also gave orders that everyone throughout Judah should observe a fast.  So people from all the towns of Judah came to Jerusalem to seek the Lord.”  (2 Chronicles 20:3-4)

The first thing we can see is that the king was afraid.  I think many times we feel bad because we are afraid when facing problems; we reason that because we are God’s children we should not feel fear, we put pressure on ourselves and quickly guilt starts building up. When threatened, we will feel fear; it is an emotion we experience. We can’t do anything about feeling fear, but we can control our reaction to fear and our actions even while feeling it.  As Joyce Meyer says “do it afraid!” 

We also notice that as soon as the king received the news he prayed to the Lord. He didn’t say a wimpy fearful prayer asking God to make everything ok, no!  He said: “O Lord, God of our ancestors, you alone are the God who is in heaven.  You are ruler of all the kingdoms of the earth.  You are powerful and mighty; no one can stand against you! … O our God, won’t you stop them? We are powerless against this mighty army that is about to attack us.  We do not know what to do, but we are looking to you for help.” (2 Chronicles 20:6; 12) what a powerful prayer!  And Jehoshaphat didn’t pray alone, he knew the power of praying together; immediately he gathered the whole nation to pray with him. “As all the men of Judah stood before the Lord with their little ones, wives and children, the Spirit of the Lord came upon one of the men standing there.” (2 Chronicles 20:13-14)  When was the last time your family got together believing God for something big?  Praying together is powerful “For where two or three gather together because they are mine, I am there among them.” (Matthew 18:20) 

God answered His children’s prayers “Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army, for the battle is not yours, but God’s.  Tomorrow, march out against them… but you will not even need to fight.  Take your positions; then stand still and watch the Lord’s victory...Do not be afraid or discouraged.” (2 Chronicles 20:15-17)  Don’t you just love this verse?  God is saying this to you and me, right now in whatever situation we are facing.  He knows we are afraid, but He reassures us that He is in charge, but He still tells us to face our challenge. Problems can’t be ignored, we can’t run away from them, we face them knowing God is by our side. He asks us to take our position, whatever He says we need to do, we do it and then we wait… oh! That is the hardest part!  How can we wait in the middle of our problems?  How can we just wait for God to act when it seems that He is not doing anything!  So tempting to act and give God some ideas on what to do and when to do it, but not Jehoshaphat, he obeyed and he organized the people in their positions “the king appointed singers to walk ahead of the army, singing to the Lord and praising him for his holy splendor.” (2 Chronicles 20:21) This reminds me of the song “Praise Him in advance” by Marvin Sapp which says “praise will confuse the enemy” and how true it is, not only the enemy but also the people around us, what a testimony!  And that is exactly what happened “at the moment they began to sing and give praise, the Lord caused the armies of Ammon, Moab and Mount Seir to start fighting among themselves.”(2 Chronicles 20:22)

May our powerful God give us the strength and wisdom to wait, hold our positions and praise Him as He fights for us. “The Lord himself will fight for you.  You won’t have to lift a finger in your defense!” (Exodus 14:14)

Undeserved Love

“I’m forgiven because you were forsaken; I’m accepted you were condemned. I’m alive and well your Spirit is within me because you died and rose again.  Amazing love, how can it be that you my king have died for me?” “You are my King” by Newsboys 

Have you ever stopped to think about the depth of Jesus’ love for you and me?  Undeserved love, undeserved life, undeserved grace and mercy, all for us.    

To be honest, it took me some time to understand that there is nothing I can do to earn God’s love or approval.  I was used to doing “good” things and being a “good” person; I liked approval and wanted to keep earning it.  When I finally understood that God’s love for me doesn’t depend on me, on what I do or don’t do, I finally could accept His love the way He intended it.  There is so much freedom when you do this… freedom from fear, comparison, guilt… there is just love. It may sound a little corny, but what can I say, it is true! But oh, sometimes it seems easier to do, to work, to earn than to believe, doesn’t it? 

“God saved you by his special favor when you believed.  And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God.  Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it. (Ephesians 2:8-9) It is interesting how our feelings can go from one extreme to the other in a matter of minutes. One moment we feel so unworthy, so wrong for all the things we have done, and the next something may happen and we feel so much better than the person beside us, there is always the danger for pride to sneak in and we don’t even know where is it coming from.  I love the way God works, He knows how dangerous pride is, and how easily it is to fall into its trap.  He makes it very clear that His mercy and His grace are unearned. They are a gift, which He gives to us because He loves us.  I really like what Paul says in Romans 12:3 “I give each of you this warning: Be honest in your estimate of yourselves, measuring your value by how much faith God has given you.” We need God to keep reminding us to be humble, the more He gives us, the more humble we must be because the greater the temptation to see ourselves in a different light.  If God decides to bless us with material things we need to thank Him, as always keep Him first and ask for wisdom to manage His money; if He decides to bless us with insight into His Word and time to study it, the same way we need to thank Him, put Him first and ask Him who does He want to help or touch through what He has taught us; and the same goes if He decides to bless us with opportunities, with leadership positions, with anything God decides to give us.  You see, God has an amazing plan for our lives and He gives us everything we need to achieve it, but He doesn’t give it to us ready; He expects us to be disciplined and learn, grow, develop our gifts, to allow Him to shape us and prepare us and when the time is right, He uses us, because it is not only about us, it is about others, “Give as freely as you have received!” (Matthew 10:8)  It is not about thinking how good we are, how we have earned what we have because we have worked so hard… no!  It is God who allows us to do what we do and to have what we have, remember what Jesus said “apart from me you can do nothing.”  (John 15:5)

“For all have sinned; all fall short of God’s glorious standard.  Yet now God in his gracious kindness declares us not guilty.  He has done this through Christ Jesus, who has freed us by taking away our sins.”  (Romans 3:25) God has made us right with Him through Jesus; just think about it, He has declared us not guilty, whatever we have done, He has forgiven us!  “He has removed our rebellious acts as far away from us as the east is from the west.”  (Psalm 103:12) Can you feel His mercy and favor?  Can you see how He wants to bless you abundantly? When we put God first, delight in His presence and recognize that everything we have or do has been given by Him, then we can truly receive His undeserved love, which is better than anything we have ever felt before.

Out of our comfort zone

When I go to the gym, I usually warm up in the treadmill but only in the manual workout, the other day I finally figured out why I do this. I realized that in manual I am in control of the difficulty level, I know what to expect and I like that.  The truth is I don’t make it too hard, just enough to feel I am working.  I think in life we also like the manual mode; it doesn’t exist, but we still like to pretend it does.  So as I was walking in the treadmill I kept repeating “please God… don’t let me get too comfortable!” you see, we enjoy our comfort zone and we don’t want to leave it.  I think deep inside we know that we have been called to do so much more, but we just stay in one place because it is familiar territory. Jesus said “The foxes have dens to live in, and birds have nests, but I, the Son of Man, have no home of my own, not even a place to lay my head.” (Matthew 8:20)  Are we ready to leave our comfortable space and do what God has called us to do?  And I don’t mean we are going to have to leave our home, material possessions and live in hardship… God decides what to do and each case is different, but many times the comfort is in the known, staying in the things we feel we can handle, it is an inner comfort.

Sometimes I think about what others miss when I choose not to do anything and about what I miss when I am afraid to take that leap of faith.  I can see Jesus lovingly telling me “Why are you afraid? You have so little faith!”(Matthew 8:26) How can we really see God’s mighty power if we don’t take the opportunities He gives us so He can be glorified?   How can we be witnesses?  The www.freedictionary.com describes a witness as “One who can give a firsthand account of something seen, heard, or experienced” How can we witness if we are too busy protecting our life from experiencing God firsthand?  One thing is to read about God and to know about Him, another is when we hold on to Him for our life, when we believe Him for a miracle, when we finally realize that we can’t do anything without Him,   When we are so broken that we feel we can’t even breathe, and yet, we know there is hope. Experiencing God firsthand is powerful and even more when He sends us to shine a light into dark territory.

During the weekend I heard a teaching about how we are in a team, God’s team.  When you belong to a team you don’t decide when to train, what uniform to wear, what games to play; you follow instructions and do it.  The coach makes decisions because he knows better and everyone in the team must play according to the plan for the team to come victorious.  Makes sense doesn’t it?

If we read carefully in the Bible, we can see how God loves to take people out of their comfort places, prepare them in the journey and use them mightily for His glory.  God told Abraham “Leave your country, your relatives, and your father’s house, and go to the land that I will show you.”  (Genesis 12:1); Jacob had to leave the comfort of his home and so did Joseph when he was sold as a slave.  Moses escaped to the desert, Ruth had to live in a foreign land and Esther had to be part of the king’s harem, and those are only a few examples.  The disciples also had to go out of their comfort zone, and when Jesus was sending them out He told them “The harvest is so great, but the workers are so few.  Pray to the Lord who is in charge of the harvest, and ask him to send out more workers for his fields.  Go now, and remember that I am sending you out as lambs among wolves…Anyone who accepts your message is also accepting me.  And anyone who rejects you is rejecting me.  And anyone who rejects me is rejecting God who sent me.”  (Luke 10:2-3;16)  When the disciples came back they told Him all the wonderful things that happened and Jesus said “I have given you authority over all the power of the enemy and you can walk among snakes and scorpions and crush them. Nothing will injure you.  But don’t rejoice just because evil spirits obey you; rejoice because your names are registered as citizens of heaven.” (Luke 10:19-20)

May we become part of those workers out in the fields, spreading the peace of knowing God and may our hearts be full of joy as we hold on to God’s hand ready to be led where He knows we should be, out of our comfort zone and into His precious presence.

God's gifts

The other day I got a package in the mail. I don’t know about you, but I love getting packages so I was very happy and put it in the kitchen counter to open it later with more time.  From the counter I moved it to the table and then to the stairs where it stayed for exactly one week.  I knew the content of the package was good and I actually needed it, but I was too busy to open it.  I mean, does this make any sense? Couldn’t I find five minutes in my “busy life” to open a package?

So one day walking up the stairs, I saw the package and thought… maybe this is what happens with the precious gifts God gives us.  We know they are good; we know we need them, but we are just too busy to receive them.  

God has prepared for us amazing gifts, so I wonder why we don’t run to Him and open our arms to accept them, why do we prefer to fight our daily battles on our own when we have “the God of angel armies by our side” as Chris Tomlin reminds us in his song - Whom shall I fear. 

“He will give you all you need from day to day if you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern.”  (Matthew 6:33)  When we put God in His rightful place, first in our life, then He will give us everything we need, more than we can dream of!

Have you ever bought a gift for a special person? First you spend some time thinking what would they like, then you check out the options, think some more, go and buy it and carefully wrap it.  You are so excited and just can’t wait to see their face when they open it… you have put so much love into it because that person is really important to you and you want to find the way to tell them.  Well, God does the same for us but multiply everything: the time He spends preparing it, the love He puts into it and the excitement He feels when we finally open it. 

God has given us life “My purpose is to give life in all its fullness.”  (John 10:10); He has given us peace “I am leaving you with a gift- peace of mind and heart.”  (John 14:27); He has given us power “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.”  (2 Timothy 1:7);  He has given us the  Holy Spirit “and he has identified us as his own by placing the Holy Spirit in our hearts as the first installment of everything he will  give us.” (2 Corinthians 1:22) He has given us eternal life “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16) Have you ever stopped to think about everything God has given us? Have you ever read the promises in the Bible knowing they are for you?  When He made them; He was thinking about you and me. 

Maybe there are some gifts by your stairs waiting to be opened, maybe you have opened them, but you are still not too sure if all the contents are for you, or maybe there are still some instruction manuals that you need to read to take full advantage of your gift, whatever stage you are in, you can be sure that God is by your side, beaming with joy because you are opening His presents.    

A new focus

Have you noticed how at an especial sports event or a performance everyone is focused only on the main court, the field or the stage, no one pays attention to what is going on around them.  Many times we do the same thing in our life, we concentrate on the big things, the main events and somehow we disregard the daily “little” things in life. The same way we may be focusing on something we have been praying for and we keep thinking that our prayers will be answered in a certain way when God does something completely unexpected and indescribably better.  We are looking one way and God is moving in the opposite direction.  We need a new way of seeing things!

“I am at war with the obvious” I love this statement made by William Eggleston, an American photographer.  The www.freedictionary.com describes obvious as easily perceived or understood, and that is what we are getting used to, things that we can comprehend quickly because there seems to be no time to ponder, contemplate or even think.  Are we too distracted, too busy, too entangled in our lives or just too lazy to go deeper?   

Eggleston believed that “by looking patiently at what others ignore or look away from, interesting things can be seen.”* I believe the key word here is patiently! 

We keep wanting to see something that we can understand.  We ask God to give us a sign, even if it is just a small one, but sometimes we get nothing, like when Elijah was praying for rain. “Elijah climbed to the top of Mount Carmel and fell to the ground and prayed.  Then he said to his servant, ‘go and look out toward the sea.’ The servant went and looked, but he returned to Elijah and said, ‘I didn’t see anything.’ Seven times Elijah told him to go and look, and seven times he went.” (1 Kings 18:42-43)  He kept praying and believing even when there was nothing to show that his prayers were being answered.  He could have doubted, but he didn’t have to see with his eyes what he knew God could do.  Even before he started praying he declared that God was going to send rain.  “Elijah said to Ahab,’ go and enjoy a good meal! For I hear a mighty rainstorm coming!” (1 Kings 18:41)

That is how God operates; He doesn’t work in the obvious, in the expected or in the easy.  He is God; He does big things and works in the impossible, the improbable and the amazing!   

For our journey of faith we need a new mindset, we need to let go our old views based only on logic. We need to be prepared to see further than we are used to and to go deeper than we think possible.  Remember when Jesus was walking and a multitude of people were around him and a woman who had been sick for twelve years “came up behind him through the crowd and touched the fringe of his robe… immediately the bleeding stopped, and she could feel that she had been healed.” (Mark 5:27-29) When Jesus realized what had happened, He asked who had touched his clothes, but the disciples couldn’t understand Him… everyone was touching his clothes!  God’s power can be seen, of course, but more than that it is felt.

“For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against those mighty powers of darkness who rule this world, and against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:12)

If we only focus on what we can see and understand then we will not be prepared for the battle and for the blessings, because there is so much more than we can see.  “We live by believing and not by seeing.” (2 Corinthians 5:7)

We can’t let our sight determine the extent of God’s reach, and the greatness of His plans for us. Why do we trust our eyes more than we trust Him? When will we realize that we can’t guess God, we can’t see everything He is doing, but we can hold on to Him and let Him guide us. “Your word is a lamp for my feet and a light for my path.”  (Psalm 119:105)

*http://www.egglestontrust.com/df_afterword.html

God heals

In the world we often see awful things happening sometimes in faraway places to people we don’t know and other times to friends and family close by.  It is difficult to understand why bad things happen and we may feel helpless as we witness things that we wish we could ignore and pretend they are not real.  

When we feel crushed with the pain around us we need to remember how Jesus prepared us ahead of time by saying “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows.  But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”  (John 16:33) Our peace is in Him, we can’t allow anything to take that peace away from us.

So what to do when bad things happen to people around us?  After we claim the peace that God has given us we need to remember that we are never bystanders; God has given us the power to act in every situation.  To those involved, He gives different responsibilities, all equally important because He wants us to put love into action.  “We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” (Romans 8:28)  We have to hold on tight to God’s promises, especially when everything looks the complete opposite; we need to say them out loud and be a witness.  Our attitude and our actions speak louder than our words, especially during difficult situations.

People who are suffering are looking for support, kindness and understanding.  They are looking for the healing and peace that only Jesus can give them. But so many times we offer long sermons and judgmental advice like Job’s friends, which made him feel even worst “Do you think your words are convincing when you disregard my cry of desperation?” (Job 6:26) or we are quick to offer solutions when maybe what they are looking for is someone that would listen to them.  

When others are hurting we need to reach out the way Jesus did, where they are, attending their immediate needs.  Love doesn’t have to be complicated; it can be a hospital visit, a homemade meal, a phone call, a ride to an appointment or an offer to buy groceries.  There are so many ways to bless people who are in emotional or physical pain, and we may think our actions are small and almost insignificant when compared to the huge problems they may be facing, but when we freely give, God multiplies our offering. He steps in and does His thing which can turn the smallest action into a life changing event.   

God’s plan for all of us is so much more wonderful than we could ever imagine that we can’t let sadness distract us from it, yes, pain and suffering are real, but so is the power of God over them. “Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will give us later.”  (Romans 8:18)  When people around us feel there is no hope, we need to remind them that there is and the best way is to show them. God has already healed us; Jesus “was wounded and crushed for our sins.  He was beaten that we might have peace.  He was whipped, and we were healed!” (Isaiah 53:5)

I pray for God to give us the wisdom, strength and courage to be light where there is darkness and joy where there is sorrow so everyone will see that He is powerful and many will receive hope, healing and restoration. ”The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18)

How stubborn can we be?

Have you ever done something that you knew was not good for you, but did it anyway?

I did something like this just yesterday.  My daughter and I make delicious brownies, but we try not to make them too often because when we do we want to eat them all at once.  We made brownies this week and yesterday I was alone at home, I looked at them and decided to eat all that was left.  I knew I was going to be sick later, and I was, but for some odd reason I did it anyway.  I mean… how stubborn can we be?

So, eating too many brownies once in a while may not be a big deal, but it is a good example of how we make decisions based on what we want in the now, and how easily we give in to our flesh. 

Louis Gigglio once said that we are always two seconds away from making disastrous decisions, and that may sound very negative, but it is true!

In Jeremiah 44:4 God says    “Again and again I sent my servants, the prophets, to plead with them, don’t do these horrible things that I hate so much.  But my people would not listen or turn back from their wicked ways.”  God suffers when we turn away from Him, why?  Because He loves us! Just like when someone we love so much is doing something that in the long run is going to hurt them, we plead with them because we don’t want anything bad to happen.  “The Lord God Almighty, the God of Israel, asks you: Why are you destroying yourselves? (Jeremiah 44:7)

“Then all the women present and all the men who knew that their wives had burned incense to idols…answered Jeremiah, we will not listen to your messages from the Lord! We will do whatever we want.” (Jeremiah 44:15-17)  If we are really honest, doesn’t that sound like something our actions sometimes say to God? In big or small things in our daily life, many times we choose to go against what God has taught us.  Yes, we can come up with many excuses, such as… “It was too hard, I didn’t realized it, everyone else was doing it”… at the end there is only one real reason … we wanted to do it.

We are very stubborn; it would be so simple if we could accept that we are not able to run our lives on our own.  We are surrounded by too many distractions that look too good and satisfy the now, but what about the later?  Our feelings are like a roller coaster, we can’t depend on them and we base our actions on what we want.  We really need God! We need His instruction and guidance every single second of our lives.  The only way to fully live is according to God’s will, and sooner than later we will realize that His will is the best thing for us.  Only God can fulfill us, renew us and give us true happiness. 

I like the way Louis Gigglio finished his teaching; he said that since we are always so close to making a wrong decision, relying on our power to say no is not enough; instead we need to concentrate on the power of God to guide us and to help us make the right decision. 

When we have a relationship with God, when we talk and listen to Him daily our lives change from the inside out, there is more of Him and less of us and our stubbornness little by little becomes joyful obedience.

“Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or stand around with sinners, or join in with scoffers.  But they delight in doing everything the Lord wants; day and night they think about his law. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season without fail.  Their leaves never wither, and in all they do, they prosper.”  (Psalm 1:1-3) 

Love waits

My niece bought a cute ring with the words: “Love waits”; when I first saw it, immediately I thought about one kind of waiting, the physical one, but talking to Shelly, my special friend, I realized that love waits in more ways… actually in all ways!  No wonder God reminds us so many times in the Bible that “Love is patient and kind… love does not demand its own way.” (1 Corinthians 13:4; 5) This journey is all about the waiting, the suddenly we love so much and the waiting again for the next suddenly.  

Waiting is hard, we want things in our own timing and that is usually “right now!” but what if we spin around the negative view we have of waiting and see it as an expression of love?

Have you ever stopped to think how long God waits for us?  He doesn’t say …”well, I give two years and if you don’t get it, that’s too bad.”  “The Lord still waits for you to come to him so he can show you his love and compassion.  For the Lord is a faithful God.  Blessed are those who wait for him to help them.”  (Isaiah 30:18) This is a beautiful portrayal of waiting; God waits for us to come to Him and then He blesses us as we wait for Him to fix our mess. It may take some time, but we are being blessed while we wait.   The waiting is the growing period, the opportunity to really get to know God and to allow Him to strengthen our faith.  I guess we could say waiting is a gift, one that we come to appreciate later on, when we have matured a little more.

Do you remember the father in the prodigal son story? Do you remember what he did when he saw his son coming back? “While he was still a long distance away, his father saw him coming.  Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.”  (Luke 15:20) His father never lost hope to see his son again.  He waited for him and his joy was overwhelming once he finally saw him.  We can’t even imagine the joy in heaven when a child returns to God.   

I heard Beth Moore say that if God has not taken you from the place you are in, even if you have repeatedly asked Him, maybe there is something to treasure where you are.  Look at the place you are in now… is God asking you to wait?  Look at the people around you… Is He giving you the opportunity to love them while you wait? Are you being a witness to them?

“Be glad for all God is planning for you.  Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful.” (Romans 12:12)

 God sees us; He knows what we are feeling and understands our frustration and hopelessness.  Keep asking Him to give you the joy you need to wait according to His will and to strengthen your faith so you can see what is not in front of you… yet.

Last week we celebrated our daughter’s fifteenth birthday with a surprise party.  She thought we were not going to do anything for her birthday and she saw no preparations being done, no shopping, no planning, no nothing, until the day came and it was surprise after wonderful surprise.  She then wrote in her Facebook wall “so today was just the BEST day ever. I'm so happy to have such amazing people in my life!! And the surprise was TOTALLY worth the wait :)”  The same way in God’s perfect time we will have our suddenly and we will be able to witness to all our friends how faithful our God is and with a big smile we will say … the wait was TOTALLY worth it!.

“Those who wait on the Lord will find new strength.  They will fly high on wings like eagles.  They will run and not grow weary.  They will walk and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31)

Loving whose way?

“I did it my way” is a song that could easily describe the way sometimes we love others.  We seem to forget to look at people’s needs or the phase they are in on their journey and focus instead on what we consider the “right” way to love.  Loving our way is easy, wouldn’t you agree? Loving people that are easy to love is a delight, the challenge comes when God places in our path people that are really tough to love, and to top it off He asks us to love them His way.

Have you ever had “those” people in your life?  You know, the ones that defy us and push our patience to what we think is the limit. The people that keep us on our knees because we know without God we would say things that we would regret.  “Those” people are placed strategically by God to help us grow and to glorify Him.  

I imagine it like this… we have this huge window in front of us, but we are willing to open just a tiny part of it because that is how we do things and that is what we feel comfortable doing, we receive some light and fresh air, but if we would be willing to open the whole window and rely completely on God’s grace to love His way, then His light would overwhelm us and it would shine brightly in our lives. We would never go back to just that tiny opening.  This reminds me of the title of a book by Joy Dawson “Forever Ruined for the Ordinary” How else can you describe it?  Once we love the way God asks us to love there is no going back to what we knew.  

Jesus loved in unusual ways, in ways no one had seen before.  He was not afraid to go against the norm set by society or to challenge common sense.

“You have heard that the Law of Moses says, ‘love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy.  But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you!  In that way you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven.”  (Matthew 5:43-45)

And we read in Matthew 5:39-40 “If you are slapped on the right cheek, turn the other, too.  If you are ordered to court and your shirt is taken from you, give your coat too.”  In the Bible we can find a lot of wonderful inspiration to love in unconventional ways, the way God loves us.   

 “God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and with power.  Then Jesus went around doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the Devil, for God was with him.” (Acts 10:38)

How many people is God strategically placing in our path? Are we willing to go to our “market place” and live the Word? God has anointed us with the Holy Spirit and He is with us, so we can also go around doing good.

Through the eyes of love

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could see people the way God sees them? We know we should love those around us as much as we love ourselves, we know we need to love everyone the same… but let’s be honest, sometimes it is not as easy as it sounds.

We ask God to give us His eyes, like in the song by Brandon Heath but when He does, we usually reply “really? I can’t love like that, it is too hard!” 

God always sees us with loving eyes. Let’s think of an occasion in which we really messed things up; I can assure you God was still smiling at us saying “I love you so much!”, and we may have argued with Him and said… “But God, look at what I did!”  But His love would not change because it is not based on what we have done, what we are doing or what we will do. Still He will say: “My child, I love you so much!”   

We know we have received this undeserving love, and still it is hard to go out to the world and love the same way.   

God sees things so differently from us “My thoughts are completely different from yours’, says the Lord.  ‘And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.  For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)   God likes to surprise us with love that goes beyond understanding or logic; He likes to work in the most unexpected ways.

For example in the book of Joshua we read how God uses Rahab, a prostitute, to save two spies Joshua had sent out to Jericho to scout the land, not only did she protect them and helped them escape, but she also teaches us a great lesson on faith.  “Before the spies went to sleep that night, Rahab went up on the roof to talk with them. ‘I know the Lord has given you this land, ‘She told them…No wonder our hearts have melted in fear! No one has the courage to fight after hearing such things.  For the Lord your God is the supreme God of the heavens above and the earth below.” (Joshua 2:8-9;11)  She knew how powerful God was, and was certain that He would help the Israelites take over, and she also knew God could help her “Now swear to me by the Lord that you will be kind to me and my family since I have helped you.” (Joshua 2:12)   

In Judges 6 we read how the Lord sends Gideon to rescue Israel from the Midianites.  But Gideon doesn’t feel is the right person for the job “But Lord, Gideon replied, ‘how can I rescue Israel? My clan is the weakest in the whole tribe of Manasseh, and I am the least in my entire family!’ The Lord said to him, ‘I will be with you.  And you will destroy the Midianites as if you were fighting against one man.” (Judges 6:15-16) God sees beyond our failures, our mistakes and our weaknesses.  He knows what He can do; He just needs us to believe in Him and let Him do it.

“Nothing can ever separate us from his love.  Death can’t, and life can’t.  The angels can’t, and the demons can’t.  Our fears of today, our worries about tomorrow, and even the powers of hell can’t keep God’s love away.”  (Romans 8:38) God loves us and we are called to love like Him.

Let’s ask God to inundate us with His love so it will overflow.  Let’s ask Him to allow us to see people the way He sees them, beyond the superficial things that distract us from the heart, let’s thank God each day for the way He loves us.  We don’t deserve it, we don’t earn it and yet we receive it each day.  And next time God asks you to love in a way you think is impossible… tell Him... “I know I can’t love like that, but you can!”